When you meet someone you like, it’s easy to be almost blinded by love. You don’t hear the alarm bells ringing but you think the person you’re dating is the nicest person in the world. Here we list three signs to look out for that reveal your date is a narcissist.
1. Is romantic in waves
A common sign is that the narcissist first showers you with romantic gestures and really love bombs you, then suddenly becomes cold and distant.
2. The charm manipulates you
Part of the narcissist’s way is that they often try to manipulate you so that you stop believing in your own reality. Also, because narcissists have so much confidence and an enchanting charm, it can be hard to resist. For example, they might say: “Are you really going to be with me now that you’re going away for a while? Go hang out with your friends instead.” Then when you walk towards the door, they shout “Don’t go”, double message one might think. Finally no longer know what is right and what is wrong.
3. Everything happens on their terms
Narcissists expect you to live on their terms, prioritize their needs, and if you don’t, they quickly become upset and irritated. That’s because they are constantly dependent on confirmation and ego boost. If you have had an argument with a narcissist, it is very likely that you are the one who is allowed to apologize even though it is not you who should be doing it. They also lack empathy for other people and don’t see your needs.
Here you will find more signs that you have a narcissist in your vicinity.
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